Do mother in law needs training to be mother in law?

Being a Daughter-in-law my answer is yes. I know most of the people disagree with me and thinks it's "wo hi saas bahu ka drama " and all.

I want to ask those hypocrite why we call it saas bahu ka drama?? In clear words, are we just considering a woman emotion, her feelings as a drama? It should be considered as only saas ka drama .

Yes that famous line afterall "kyunki saas bhi kbhi bahu thi" & " Kahani ghar ghar ki" which I think all indian must know and treat woman as a quarrel some creature.

But why so? It's our male dominated society which makes fun of the entire gender just because you are female so you must be dramebaaz. It's our mind set and unfortunately years have passed but the thinking is still the same.

So the point is whether your mother-in-law should get trained for acquiring new position in her life. Well, yes she should be as most of the family drama comes from her side only. Treating your daughter as daughter and your daughter in law like a step daughter is most common in the whole world. A good Mother-in-law is a myth.

In India mother are so jealous to accept her D-I-L as daughter she thinks her son's priority will change. She starts comparing with her which is illogical. So whenever there is a fight in the family she never forget to mention " shaadi ke baad badal gya hai", " ye aaj kal ki aayi ladki pe itna trust aur meri baaton pe nhi", " maine bhut dukho se pala hai tumhe and see what I am getting in return". Who wants such an overdramatic M-I-L? 

I guess none of us like ye daily soap in our entire life. But yes we are D-I -L and only we understand what we go through after the marriage. Talking about men  they have to balance relation between his family and his in laws as well. So just to make everyone happy he tries to maintain healthy relationship. What about women who is being pressurized all her life to obtain fasting, dress up like sanskari bahu, behave good with everyone, keep fake smile on your face 24*7 and so on..the list is so big that it can't be finished in few pages lol ...

The problem with our society is they think women are overdramatic. As men don't face stuffs like women do. Lives in other house suddenly, tolerate all the pressure, behave nicely with all relatives, smile infront of everyone, well dress up all the time,yes how can I forget cooks food according to in-laws choice, sacrifice your festivals and special days and serve the so called rishtedar. If you disagree with any of these then you are not "sanskari bahu". Most importantly say namaste to your mother-in-law if any single day you forgot to say then your entire life is screwed up  with your lovable M-I -L.

If your daughter is working then she has full right to wakeup at 10 or 12pm but your daughter in law who is also working should wake up at 6-6:30 and start cooking meals ,cleaning floor and finish the entire household work before she leaves for office.

Daughters are allowed to wear night suit entire day in her house as well as their in laws place but when your daughter in law wear night dress one day after traveling then she yells and starts her melodrama. "Kis ki bahu night dress me ghumti hai" ? These all dramas are for your daughter in law. Wow! she will never accept her daughter's fault.

So my question to all those lovely ladies who plays the role of vamp in the life of your D-I-L. Stop being conservative, insensitive, fake, not so liberal with your D-I-L choice but liberal with your daughter's choice. 

Why such descrimination with daughter's and daughter-in-law? What is the need of being a disgusting women,who suffered from same saas bahu objection and rejection, still she chooses to continue bully her daughter in law in the same manner?

There are training classes for how to cry at your own wedding, how to grow your babies, how to carry your baby in your womb for nine months ...so why not any crash course for how to behave like a mother to your daughter in law.

I wish I could start that course so that the coming generation is not going to suffer from the same conservative thinking.