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Do mother in law needs training to be mother in law?

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Being a Daughter-in-law my answer is yes. I know most of the people disagree with me and thinks it's "wo hi saas bahu ka drama " and all. I want to ask those hypocrite why we call it saas bahu ka drama?? In clear words, are we just considering a woman emotion, her feelings as a drama? It should be considered as only saas ka drama . Yes that famous line afterall "kyunki saas bhi kbhi bahu thi" & " Kahani ghar ghar ki" which I think all indian must know and treat woman as a quarrel some creature . But why so? It's our male dominated society which makes fun of the entire gender just because you are female so you must be dramebaaz. It's our mind set and unfortunately years have passed but the thinking is still the same. So the point is whether your mother-in-law should get trained for acquiring new position in her life. Well, yes she should be as most of the family drama comes from her side only. Treating your daughter as daughter ...

Upbringing-The Unpredicted future

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 Upbringing means how you grow up your child. The most important lesson in life both for parents and children.  In India, once you are married every single day you're advised by every other woman to bear a child. Well, just giving birth to your child is enough or do you think growing them in a better and independent way matters? Our society is so biased that they are running the same race which everyone is running. The point is how to grow your child? The entire relatives will start suggesting how to grow your child.But it's only you who knows what kind of upbringing you should give. I have seen many people nearby as per my own experience, I have seen one family whose parents brought up not the way they wanted. Instead of that, they give their child space to fall and get up learning from their own experience. When your parents trust you it's the biggest thing you could ever have. So it's your responsibility to make them feel that they are not wrong trusting you.  Althou...

Son-In-Law An Idol Of Indian Society

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👑 Son-In-Law: The Idol of Indian Society When I started writing about the “ Son-in-law” , one quote immediately struck my mind: 💬 “Damaad khush toh beti khush” — If the son-in-law is happy, the daughter will be happy. This seems to be the favorite quote of our society. But the real question is — why? 🤔 💭 A Society of Double Standards Is it really that hard to treat a daughter-in-law with kindness and dignity? On one hand, we worship women as Durga, Kali, and Lakshmi — symbols of power, strength, and prosperity. But on the other, we expect them to silently serve, obey, and sacrifice. She’s not seen as a new family member — she’s seen as a maid, a helper, or worse — a puppet. Everywhere you hear comparisons like: “Dekha Sharma ji ki bahu ko?” “Mishra ji ki bahu brings so many gifts!” Why does a woman’s worth have to be measured against another? Why do women themselves often become each other’s harshest critics? 💔 👩‍👩‍👧 Daughter or Daughter-in-Law — She’s Stil...

💔 Daughter-in-Law: The Most Unfortunate Yet the Most Accountable Person

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 Welcome to the so-called beautiful world of marriage — or should I say, the world that tests every woman’s strength and patience ? They say, “Everyone gets married once in a lifetime.” But do you truly believe that marriage is a fairytale? For most women, it feels less like a dreamland and more like a daily battlefield. When a girl gets married, she carries dreams, hopes, and imagination — a vision of love, partnership, and respect. But the reality? A sink full of dirty utensils. A mop waiting for her hands. Meals to cook. Relatives to serve. Smiles to fake. Welcome to married life — where expectations rarely match reality. 👩‍🍳 Marriage or Servitude? This is not just one woman’s story — it’s the story of millions. Yes, some are lucky — they have families that don’t burden them with endless chores or expectations. But many aren’t. Before marriage, her mother does everything for her — cooking, cleaning, caring. After marriage, her “bhabhi” or the new daughter-in-law tak...