Upbringing-The Unpredicted future

 Upbringing means how you grow up your child. The most important lesson in life both for parents and children. 

In India, once you are married every single day you're advised by every other woman to bear a child. Well, just giving birth to your child is enough or do you think growing them in a better and independent way matters? Our society is so biased that they are running the same race which everyone is running. The point is how to grow your child? The entire relatives will start suggesting how to grow your child.But it's only you who knows what kind of upbringing you should give.

I have seen many people nearby as per my own experience, I have seen one family whose parents brought up not the way they wanted. Instead of that, they give their child space to fall and get up learning from their own experience. When your parents trust you it's the biggest thing you could ever have. So it's your responsibility to make them feel that they are not wrong trusting you. 

Although parenting is not easy once you have your own child most of the times you ignore your child faults. But beware after ignoring their mistakes as every single mistake can lead to a bigger setback for the future. If your child falls down while walking don't help them to stand up. Instead of that watch them to stand by their own, if you will not extend your hand in the very beginning then your child will become independent else, they are dependent on you for the rest of your life.

On the other hand, I have seen parents who know that their child can't even extend their hands to bring a glass from the kitchen. What kind of upbringing is that? Every time they need anything they start looking for you no matter how old their parents get. All they want is their own comfort by discomforting their own parents. 

There are parents who some how failed in achieving their goals. They start dreaming when their child grows up he will achieve it, sorry to say but this is the worst case of upbringing. When you don't give space to your child always push them to work hard.Some where they get frustrated and looks for easier way to get rid of all this. It might lead to death or suicide attempts. Beware when you grow up your child like this then be prepared to face the consequences!

The choice is always yours which type of upbringing you want to give to your child.